Consider making a Yes/No/Maybe listand filling it out with a prospective partner to see where you're both at. There's also an app called Spicer that lets you and a partner answer sets of yes/no/maybe sexual interest questions and only reveals the areas where both partners match. Not sure how lesbian sex act friendly it is, haven't used it myself. But that way if one person isn't typically satsfied with a sexual... Source: almost 2 years ago

I think it might have been https://spicer.app. Source: over 2 years ago

You can also try the spicer app. You guys both answer the questions with yes/no/maybe and it show you your matches. You can download Spicer app here: https://spicer.app. Source: almost 3 years ago

Spicer app for couples Spicer app for couples. Source: almost 3 years ago

Check out the Wheel of Consent and play the three minute game. Download Spicer and compare your interests. Join us over at r/sexover30 because we’re all learning how to keep it interesting and it’s a good resource. Source: about 3 years ago

It buildium.com for community associations. Source: about 2 years ago